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[Ghost Nation]

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Self-awareness and self-criticism are the first steps to find a solution.

Feminism developed from a comparatively small movement of hateful, crazy lesbians in the seventies, who shamelessly rewrote history and had nothing more than lies and false evidence in their repertoire, into a huge success. Why?

Feminism and misandry is embraced everywhere - from the government to the media, from the courts to the schools. Why?

AntiFeminism came up along with feminism. Though in the beginning, it was just a vague gutfeeling of most men and a lot of women, that feminism is just plain silly, a bunch of lies and a distortion of the truth, in the meantime there is a LOT of hard evidence, countless scientific studies and serious statistics, that show that feminism is based on lies, false allegations, madeup statistics, hatred etc. .

By now antifeminism should have sweeped feminism away. Cause the truth prevails over lies, right? Wrong! Feminism is still a huge success.
Countless men AND women suffer because of it.
Why?

Ok, there are a few brave websites such as this one, good books telling the truth, a few men's rights associations and a lot of disgruntled men.

But lets face it - antifeminism is not a real success. Definitely not the success it should be. This forum should have 50000 members. Antifeminist sites should have a million visits every day. Each. Mens Rights associations should be a political force. But this site has some 70 members, AF sites are poorly visited. And the few men's parties have a few ridiculed members, that fight against windmills.
Why?

My answer: It is OUR fault. It is men's fault.
Antifeminism is basically a flop, because men are different from women.

Now, we can't expect the activist feminists to see the light or even admit the truth, although they must know it by now. Some do admit it in private, but just sneer "thats toogh titties, we are the winners
Nor can we expect the legions of women, who profit unfairly from the achievements of feminism, to go against their sisters.

Antifeminism is basically a flop, because men are different from women.

How so? The following, does not apply to all men and maybe none of it to YOU.
But I think, that a lot of it is true for a lot of men.

Men are lazy

Most men know about the evils of feminism, but they are just to lazy to do something about it. We prefer to meet our friends, have a drink and relax after a hard days work.

Men are fair
Fairness is an important concept for men. We believe in fairness. We believe that truth will prevail and good will win over evil. So why do something about feminism. It will go away by itself.

Men are too busy
We just don't have the time. Most men work too hard physically or timewise to make a living for their families to engage in focusgroups etc. in their sparetime.

Men are cowards
The majority of men love their women, mothers, sisters, daughters and wives, though feminists want to make us believe otherwise. Fighting actively feminism might mean to have fights and quarrels with the women in our lives. Most men don't like fighting - not their family anyway.

Men can cope
Or so they think. Men do not have an easy time. From early onwards on, we know, that at the end of the day we have to make a living. Alone. And nobody will help us. We learned to cope with #$%#$% bosses, economic recessions, unfair situations and cars, that break down. No one there, that we can run to.
Feminisms and all the evils that come with it, is just another thing that we have to cope with and we think we can do it alone.

Men are proud. Too proud.
Whinging and whining about unfair treatment is not the manly thing to do.
We are too proud to fight feminism. We aren't sissies, are we?
When we're hurt, we clench our teeth, shrug it off and go on. That is how we are brought up. Girls are encouraged to cry and whimper just about everything from childhood onwards. And they never grow out of it.

Men believe
Yes, a lot of men believe, that a lot of the claims of feminisms are actually true. The wage-gap, male domestic violence or centuryold oppression of women are myths, that we grew up with. I used to believe them myself. A lot of men still do. So we think that feminism is actually not that bad.

Men are obsessed
We are obsessed with women. A lot of us anyway. Lets face it - we love women, we want them and a lot of us struggle to even get ONE. We will do just about everything and put up with an awful lot just to call a woman ours.
Well that is a pretty bad position to be in, if you wanna fight feminism.

Men are unaffected
Thank god a lot(most?) of women are not feminists, but loving, caring, rational beings. And most of us are married/engaged to them. We feel, that feminism does not affect us. Ok, we bring home most of the money and work hard, but she looks after the kids and the house and often brings in some extra money. Everybody does his/her share and that is just and fair. Why fight feminism?

Men are beaten
A lot of us are beaten. We lost our families, are financially ruined, are mentally and physically exhausted. We did fight. Long time ago and we lost. The law, society and the media tells us, that we are wrong. Always. We are the bad guys. Strength left us and we gave up. And we are happy enough to hold on to a few quid, get drunk and wank along to some internet porn.

Men are individualists
Maybe one of our greatest strength is also out greatest weakness in fighting feminism. Men fight men. We are loners, look at our personal situation and try to do sth. about it. We strive to make the world a better place for us, and if someone else benefits from it it's fine. But thats it. Men are not really social animals. We care for our women and our kids, but not for other men.
Remember: feminism was "founded" and is promoted mostly by highly educated, successful and self-confident western women who have definitely the least to complain about anything.


Hmmm - just writing all this got me a bit depressed...

Tell me, that I am wrong! Tell me, that feminism will go under and rationality and fairness will succeed.